What do you guys think of this situation? did i do something bad?

well are you still in a relationship with the other man? because if you are then anything would be too much talking to him online is too much but if you are not with another man and just felt like you should get him something and it totald to $200 then thats what happens i don't think you can put a price on what you want to get someone .. who cares if you have the money to do it and your kids are taken care of do what you want but DON'T CHEAT